Alanis Morissette Calls Out Ben Affleck Onstage, Then Plays His Exploding Head
Alanis Morissette thanked Ben Affleck for asking why she didn't 'lead with my sexuality,' then screened his exploding-head scene from Dogma at her final Inglewood residency show.

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- Alanis Morissette called out Ben Affleck at the November 11 show of her residency at the YouTube Theater in Inglewood, California.
- She quoted Affleck asking why she didn't 'lead with my sexuality,' then played a Dogma clip of his head exploding.
- In Dogma, Morissette plays God, whose voice kills Affleck's fallen angel Bartleby.
- The show was the fourth and final date of the 'Butterfly With a Machete' residency, after a Las Vegas run last year.
- Variety received no comment from Affleck's representative by publish time.
Alanis Morissette used the November 11 stop of her "Butterfly With a Machete" residency at the YouTube Theater in Inglewood, California, to publicly call out Ben Affleck — and then screen a clip of his head exploding.
The moment came during a monologue about "harsh judgments," as reported by Entertainment Weekly. "I've even had a guy ask me why I didn't lead with my sexuality," Morissette told the crowd. "Thank you, Ben Affleck."
What was the exploding-head clip?
The video she played came from "Dogma," Kevin Smith's 1999 film in which both Morissette and Affleck appeared. In the movie, Morissette plays God. Her character's voice is so powerful that it instantly kills the fallen angel Bartleby, played by Affleck — the on-screen result is his head bursting apart.
So the stage effect was literal: the singer who plays God in the film used God's kill scene as her punchline at the man she'd just named. It's a neat piece of concert theater, turning a 25-year-old cameo into a rebuttal.
Morissette and Affleck were co-stars in the film, which is the professional link she invoked by thanking him.
What did she say about fame?
Elsewhere in the show, Morissette expanded on what public life has cost her. She described feeling "harsh judgments about my songs, about my body, about how I look, about how I think, about how I feel, about my value system, about my weight, about how feral I am, about how feral I live, about my approach to parenting, about my approach to education, my approach to freaking anything."
She also recounted a failed attempt at finding a friend inside the industry. "I did call Johnny Depp at one point, and his response was, 'Why are you calling me?'" she said.
Taken together, the anecdotes sketch the mechanism behind the monologue: a star who has spent three decades in the public eye describing how that scrutiny lands on everything from her songwriting to her parenting — and naming two of the most famous men in Hollywood as examples of the reception she got.
What does this change for the residency?
The November 11 show was the fourth and final date of the "Butterfly With a Machete" residency, which wrapped after this run and followed an initial run of shows in Las Vegas last year. That means the Affleck moment landed on the closing night — the last chance for this tour's audience to hear it live.
The clip of the moment, captured and shared by Entertainment Weekly on Instagram, has since circulated widely, giving the residency a post-tour afterlife online.
Variety reached out to Affleck's representative for comment but had received no response by publish time. Whether Affleck responds — or lets the Dogma clip speak for itself — is now the open question.
Original: ew.com
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